Whose Problem is it Anyway? Understanding Problem Ownership (Podcast Episode 10)

April 11, 2025

As parents so often we get so wrapped up in issues- which aren’t even ours to solve! Today, we tackle a question that every parent faces: Who really owns the problem—the child or the parent? Marjie and Paige explore the delicate balance between our own problems, our kids’ problems, and a shared problem. Once we are clear whose problem it is, we know whether we need to take action, offer support, or discuss solutions.

We see how getting clear on who owns the problem helps us respond in the most effective way—whether it's stepping back, offering guidance, or finding a solution together. Problem ownership helps us get out of convincing and over explaining. From forgotten soccer shoes to help with setting the table, we discuss how parents can determine when to step back and when to step in. Whether you’re a parent of a toddler, teenager, adult, or somewhere in between, this episode offers valuable insights into raising resilient, independent children while still offering the love and support they need. Tune in and you might just discover it’s not your problem!